The 5th step.

We must first reveal to ourselves who we really are. We cannot grow until we do.

This is a very disarming idea. Many of us are are simply not prepared to face up to who we really are. Benedict however, reminds us that we must confront who we are if we want to grow.  For when we accept this truth, we will find that we can let go and give Him control.  We will be able to surrender. 

They will be done!